once, in a land far far away, a beautiful maiden mastered many a language, perfect poise, love-of-life, and all things in between . . . she twirled. she laughed. her spirit aglow . . . perhaps life seemed nearly complete. yet half a world away, from across the salty sea, a ribbon of light-hearted humor…
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making a final decision has been ridiculously tough. to say we’ve agonized over this would be an understatement. it was a challenge to whittle the field down to FIVE but then to select but 1 GRAND WINNER proved nearly impossible. we love each of these couples ~ and we love them for different reasons. to…
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Wow! I can’t wait to see these pics. I am sure they will be beautiful (as always) and all the way in Poland! Is this going to be a yearly contest? Imagine all the places you could see if you did this every year!April 13, 2008 – 9:57 pm
Congrats, Magda and Jan! Your story is beautiful and the wedding will be phenomenal!April 14, 2008 – 8:02 am
WOW! Thank you! Thank you! We cannot believe that we have won your contest!!! We are so honoured and thrilled that you found our story worthy of this. Our families and friends are so happy that we will have such wonderful and timeless pictures taken by such talented and passionate photographers!
Magda & JanApril 14, 2008 – 2:15 pm
WOW!!!! What an unbelievable and such a timeless story. I can’t wait to see the pictures from this wedding. I know that every detail will be captured and amazing. Congratulations to Magda and Jan!
Jessica ElliffApril 14, 2008 – 6:43 pm
note (1) to readers, all ~so you know how, up to this point, we’ve provided an excerpt from each finalist couple’s story?well, we just couldn’t excerpt from this next couple’s essay and do it justice…so what the heck, here’s THE WHOLE thing as it arrived our inbox, complete with photo caption, too. note (2) to…
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Ashlee and Jeff –
What else can I say? You two are so imperfect for each other, you’re perfect! Or, at least that’s how it sounds in your essay.
I have enjoyed getting to know you both over the past 2 years. I’ve been through your ups and downs (thanks Jeff) and everything in between. Honestly, I couldn’t imagine a more perfect couple and I’m thrilled for you to begin your new journey together (FINALLY!). Good luck with this – you deserve it more than anyone I know!
Love,
StevieApril 8, 2008 – 12:17 pm
This is Jeff’s “boss” (ha, ha…in the office, anyway). When I recruited PR rock-star Jeff Neu to come work for us, I had know idea I’d be separating a two-some. The guilt! For almost two years now, the two have been weekend commuters — burning up Hwy 70 between Columbia and St. Louis (presumably to Golden Earing’s “Radar Love” – although that may be before their time). They have tons in common: both smart, funny communications people who’s clients and colleagues know their the bomb, they both love the Cardinals, and they both kick serious booty on the softball field.
The only thing they don’t have in common is their height. Maybe the right wedding photographer can make Jeff taller than Ashlee in the wedding photos.April 8, 2008 – 2:15 pm
I can’t think of two individuals more perfectly suited for each other — and yet, their story isn’t a “perfect love story” — which is what makes it real, and easily identifiable for real people. What a beautiful story — good luck Jeff & Ashlee!April 8, 2008 – 2:19 pm
Hi, I am one of Ashlee’s many cousins. I too have the Claret 1 dress (which was beautiful), and I shared many of Ashlee’s sentiments about marriage at that point. However, as I hear Ashlee talk about her relationship with Jeff, I know that has all changed! It is fantastic to see a couple that complements each other so well. It is truly amazing that she was able to find that one person that can complete her individuality and make her so genuinely happy. We all know Ashlee wouldn’t settle for anything less! And Jeff is clearly a smart man to see what a fantastic person he found in Ashlee. I think they are a great example for other couples (even the cynics) and will always have the full support of their family and friends.
As a part of her extended (and somewhat large but awesome) family, I know I speak for everyone in saying that we all love her dearly and wish her and Jeff all the best in the future!April 8, 2008 – 2:28 pm
This is Ashlee’s younger brother and the one who tossed the now infamous garter you see in the picture. Just to give you the background behind the garter toss….. it was slightly choreographed. Jeff approached me before the toss to “let me know where he was going to be standing” which would be “worthwhile” (wink, wink). So before the toss I took a quick peak to see where exactly Jeff was standing and made sure it went in his direction. As I turned I saw that Jeff was going to make sure he came away with the prize. I’ve kept this as our little secret……until now. Some might read this and judge Jeff to be somewhat of a desperate soul (certainly that happened to be the first thing that popped into my mind), however when you are with the two of them it quickly becomes evident that Jeff would stop at nothing to win Ashlee’s heart, even chasing a little superstition. So what I originally thought to be an act of desperation, I now see as an act of determination. I love my sister very much and wish her and Jeff the best and hope they win this contest.
P.S. I appreciate the definition of claret. I admit to asking my wife yesterday “what color claret most resembles?” after reading Ashlee’s essay.April 8, 2008 – 4:52 pm
What can you say when your sons find the women of their dreams. I look forward to the day when I will have their wives as daughters-in-law (since I know that their parents will always come first) that I can cherish as much as my boys. Jeff and Ashlee have carried on a long distance relationship that exceeds the time many couples’ marriages survive. I have watched Jeff grow in so many ways while the miles on his car have multiplied many fold. I also believe that I have witnessed the same transformation in Ashlee just as her cars have changed through all of the travel. They both have to have all the billboards memorized between St. Louis and Columbia.
It is amazing to see how they now look at each other through tender eyes that shout their love for the other. Jeff and Ashlee are two very independent people that I believe will truly make a strong union that will endure for years to come.
Thank you for your contest and for this opportunity to briefly express our thoughts about two people we love.
Jeff’s DadApril 8, 2008 – 5:19 pm
With Jeff such a movie buff, I wrote this in terms he would appreciate.
Ashlee and Jeff are certainly a “Love Story” for “Modern Times.” She is not just a “Drop Dead Gorgeous” “Pretty Woman,” but is also “The Shining” “Star” in my son’s “Life.” She’s one of those “Smart People” with a “Big” “Heart,” who would do or “Say Anything” to “Help” “Family” and “Friends.”
What can I say “About a Boy” named Jeff? He is “So Dear to My Heart,” our “First Born” and a “Loving,” caring son. He’s also a “Die Hard” “Major League” fan. “On Any Given Sunday,” “The Fan” AKA Jeff might be watching “The Cardinal” game, “The Silence of the Lambs” (Rams), or “The Blues Brothers” on ice. Jeff not only works from “Nine to Five” at “The Firm,” but works on “The Net” “After Hours” in “The Apartment.”
The two extra-”Ordinary People” are “Living in Missouri.” Jeff lives in the “Metropolis” of St. Louis, while Ashlee lives in the “College” town of Columbia. One must “Drive” on “Highway” 70 “Across the Wide Missouri” every “Freaky Friday” so they can spend time together. Each has been a “Victim” of “Higher and Higher” “Gas” prices, “The Good, the Bad and the Ugly” “Easy Listening” “Radio” stations, and “Bad” “Traffic.” All this while trying to avoid a “Crash” on “The Asphalt Jungle.”
Jeff and Ashlee weren’t “Born Yesterday.” They have no “Grand Illusion” of what love is. They know it takes hard “Work” both “Night and Day.” There might be a “Blow-up,” “Cries and Whispers.” But, I know “The Conversation” between these two “Friends and Lovers” will soothe “The Sting” and their “Love Actually” will “Help” them “Do the Right Thing.” Their love is no “Charade,” “It’s A Gift”–”The Real Thing!”
Jeff’s MomApril 8, 2008 – 5:48 pm
I have 5 brothers, so I thought I pretty much knew how guys are. But Jeff is a rare one. Ashlee’s description of him is apt — he’s not one bit afraid to show how crazy he is about her and his desire for them to live happily ever after. Glad you guys are going strong and headed down the aisle!April 8, 2008 – 7:20 pm
I’m Ashlee’s older sister, Mandy. It did not surprise me that Ash was a finalist in an essay contest. Ashlee’s writing skills have earned her scholarships, awards, and even a career – her number one love until Jeff! What did surprise me was that it was for a wedding contest?!? Not the sister I know! What’s the saying -Love is a mysterious thing? I’d say so! Only love would make Ash surrender her private, women’s liberal lifestyle and show Jeff she truly loves him by possibly giving him a permanent memory of one of his most enjoyable events – a wedding – and better yet maybe even his own! Kim and Amy, Ashlee’s writing may make her the author of this love story, but your photographs could be the illustrations to document this unique beginning of a husband and wife.April 8, 2008 – 8:02 pm
Ashlee is one of the most incredibly gifted and strong women I know. And she’s certainly the most feminist. Yet somehow, Jeff (patiently) wove himself into the very fibers of her being and taught her that being a feminist has nothing to do with being in love. I’ve never seen her happier.
Maybe she should ask her wedding party to wear claret, too.April 8, 2008 – 8:09 pm
Ashlee and Jeff are beautiful people from the inside out!
Ashlee is my neice and I have loved her for many reasons. She is beautiful, smart, elegant, kind, loving, respectful of herself and others, and funny in her own special way. She was born just weeks before my youngest son, so I feel a special bond with her. She deserves the very best.
As for being taller than Jeff, there is absolutely no law against it! I’;m taller than my husband and we’ve been married almost 40 years. I think Ashlee and Jeff can make it too!
I don’t know Jeff well, but he has to be very smart, savvy and persistent to have won Ashlee’s heart. I know that she must love him dearly if she agreed to marry nim. (by the way, I don’t think she is as cynical as she would like Jeff to think!)
All my love to these two, and pick them, they deserve it!April 8, 2008 – 8:11 pm
Ashley is one of the most gifted and strong women I know. And she’s certainly the most feminist. Yet somehow, Jeff (patiently) wove himself into the very fiber of her being, and taught her that being a feminist had nothing to do with being in love. I’ve never seen her happier.
Maybe she should ask her wedding party to wear claret, too.April 8, 2008 – 8:11 pm
I am Ashlee’s college roommate and the proud bride who made her wear the Claret II dress! In the past 8 years that I have known Ashlee, she has been there for me in my times of sorrow and of course my many moments of pure joy. While planning my own wedding, Ashlee lovingly put up with me and my giddiness while deep down I knew that if she had to look at one more bridal magazine laying around our apartment she might pull her hair out. I was always the hopeless romantic and Ashlee was the one who just wasn’t sure if she believed in all that love stuff. Until she met Jeff. Something changed, she was still the Ashlee I knew and loved, yet she now had a softer side and a twinkle in her eye. Could it actually be love? She tried to fight it first, but I knew deep down, this may actually be it! Even though I was starting to see how happy Jeff was making her, I still wasn’t sure if I’d ever see the day when Ashlee would give in to love and become Jeff’s wife and then that day came, I answered my phone on a very joyous October morning and I could actually hear Ashlee smiling as she told me the story of her engagment. I have never been so happy for 2 people as I am for Jeff and Ashlee. They compliment each other and love each other in a way that can only be described as true love. I always knew that Ashlee had it in her, it just took seven bridemaids dresses, a few best friends and one amazing man to help her finally reach her ultimate happiness and find true love!April 8, 2008 – 8:18 pm
Ashlee & Jeff, what can I say! These two have followed a long and winding path to get to where they are today.
Ashlee is beautiful, funny, elegant, loving, kind, athletic, and a wonderful person. I could go on and on about her, but you would probably think I’m partial because I am her Aunt. You would be correct about the partial part, however, I am telling the truth, and she is all those things and more!
Since Jeff has won her heart, I know that he is a great person. I hope that I get a chance to know him better since he is obviously a very smart young man with discriminating taste in ladies!
Good luck guys, I hope you win!April 8, 2008 – 8:30 pm
Having joined Ashlee’s family 10 years ago, I have come to know, love and admire her. Ashlee is not only beautiful and intelligent, but she has a great spunky personality! She has a deep and abiding love for her family and friends, who she will defend aggressively if the need arises. She has always been happy to be the bride’s maid and not the bride, so I have known for years that it would take a certain kind of man to get and keep her attention. Jeff is handsome, no question about that, but it takes more than good looks to impress a woman like Ashlee! His intellegence, quick wit, self confidence, maturity, and determination are just a few of the characteristics that set him apart from other men. Ashlee may be a cynic, but she is no fool, and who could resist Jeff forefver?? 
Jeff and Ashlee are perfect for each other. I love them both dearly!! Aunt NancyApril 8, 2008 – 8:33 pm
“Claret I” that was my wedding! I am one of Ashlee’s oldest friends. From playing sports in the pee wee leagues to chasing boys in high school-we have done it all! We would cruise the streets of our hometown looking for boys…I went through my fair share, but Ashlee was always too concerned with sports and good grades to let a boy get in the way. I always admired how independent she was, but always hoped that someday she would meet “Mr. Right.”
I believe that Jeff may have been in Ashlee’s life for a while before I actually met him (this was probably during the time she was telling Jeff all the reasons they shouldn’t be together . However, when I did meet him I was shocked. I remember thinking, great a city boy and Ashlee is bringing him “out to the farm” (where we live).
Ashlee introduced him and he couldn’t get out the door quick enough to take in the sights of the country and see the animals. I instantly loved him and knew he was perfect for Ashlee (the country girl who loved the city).
As I have watched Ashlee and Jeff’s relationship grow I see just how perfect they are for each other and know that they will have a “happily ever after ending.” There truly can’t be a couple more deserving of a perfect wedding and a wonderful life! Good luck Ashlee and Jeff-I love both of you!!!April 8, 2008 – 9:04 pm
Dear Amy and Kim,
Ashlee is my cousin, but as family ties go, she may as well be my sister. We grew up together, only one mile apart and, although we attended different schools and branched out in our lives, we’ve always stayed close. In those times, Ashlee and I have gloried in our shared cynicism and sarcasm, disparaging relationships, marriages and the fools in them alike. But when Ashlee finally “came out” to the family about dating Jeff, that all changed. Her eyes were different, as was her smile. And the way Jeff looks at Ashlee is the way that every woman wants a man to look them.
They have an amazing bond, an unexpected mesh of personalities. And, although they didn’t travel vast distances or endure great physical hardships to grow together, their journey towards loving one another was no less a feat and a blessing. Theirs will be a charmed union. Ashlee glows when she speaks about Jeff (and you are to understand that, generally, Ashlee is not the type of girl who “glows”). She is a tough-as-nails, tell-it like-it-is, many-hyphenated-idiomatic-phrases-for-strong and independent woman. And Jeff makes her glow.
That is enough to make him as a brother to me and trust him with her heart.
And after seeing your website, I trust Silver Box Photography to capture the love between these two birds. They deserve to have it shown so sweetly as many others have with your talents.
Sincerely,
1st Cousin Stacy (the sharp-tongued-wit)April 8, 2008 – 9:10 pm
Hello, I also work with Jeff and am a sucker for love stories that aren’t fairy tales. I wanted to leave a comment to let Ashlee know how amazingly written her essay is. I melt every time I read it. I hope you always keep that passion for each other and wish you both the best. Oh and by the way, how brave of you to invite the entire office to your reception…I heard what happened at the Christmas party!
Cheers,
RebaApril 8, 2008 – 9:12 pm
This is Ashlee (and Jeff’s) friend Allie. I’m a sucker for love stories. I can watch chick-flicks over and over again, melting at the sheer romance and perfection of how the stories unravel.
However, after being married for nearly three years, I’ve come to realize that love doesn’t fall into our laps like in the movies. In real life, love comes from a lot of patience, trust, hard work and compromise, and sometimes you have to let go of yourself a little bit to share in something greater with the one you love. Those virtues are exactly what have brought Ashlee and Jeff to where they are today. Their love story may not be traditional, but coming from someone who has watched it unfold, it has been just as beautiful and joyful to watch as a picture-perfect love story.
I have been rooting for Ashlee and Jeff since “the hunt” began and I am so happy their story has a happy ending. No, a happy beginning because regardless of what happens in this contest, they have real-life love that will last a lifetime. Congratulations to you both, and good luck!April 8, 2008 – 9:31 pm
You often hear love is a delicate balance between two opposites. It’s that balance that makes Ashlee and Jeff a great match. I met Ashlee in grad school in a class that almost made me rethink my decision to spend thousands on an advanced degree. She struck me as a person who never gives up, stands by her decisions and will fight to the death to prove her point. She inspired me to not give up on my aspirations. Then I met Jeff. He’s the kind of guy you’d love to take home to mom or tell your troubles to at the end of a long day. But he still had enough vigor to hold his own against Ashlee, which made conversations with the pair very amusing. When they were together, Jeff had a way of softening Ashlee like no one else could. Don’t get me wrong, she’d poke fun and tease him when she could, but Jeff could give it right back. His understanding and laid-back ways are the perfect balance to her drive and ambition. They truly bring out the best in each other and I couldn’t be happier for this perfect couple.April 8, 2008 – 10:53 pm
Cheers to you both! It’s truly been a pleasure getting to know you. As a former colleague of Jeff’s, I remember having regular conversations with him that spanned countess topics, mostly involving work but, on occasion, also love. One of my favorite comments he would reiterate with some frequency was that he valued Ashley not only as the woman he continually marveled, but also as his steady teammate who shared the journey. Here’s to two people I couldn’t be more delighted to see on the same team for years to come. Congratulations on your happy union.April 8, 2008 – 11:09 pm
Ashlee (and Jeff),
Thanks so much for sharing this with us. I just loved your essay. You can thank your mom for passing the word on to her buddies.
Best wishes to both of you!
Denise B.April 9, 2008 – 6:03 am
Hi, I’m Ashlee’s mother and keeper of all the bridesmaid dresses! Never in my wildest dreams did I think Ashlee would choose a family wedding and reception since she is the daughter (out of four) who protested marriage and wedding trappings the loudest. As a loyal friend or sister she supported all her high school, college, and family brides but all the while touted the nonsense of traditional wedding regalia: showers, wedding colors, flowers, cakes, veils, music, dresses, something borrowed, something blue. I assumed, since my Ashlee loves to travel, that when the right man came along she would do a quiet destination wedding. But along came Jeff and what at first seemed the odd couple soon became the comfortable couple:
Jeff has one brother; Ashlee has three sisters and a brother.
Jeff is from the city; Ashlee is from the country.
Jeff has cat allergies; Ashlee loves cats.
Jeff loves sweets; Ashlee is health food conscious.
Jeff loves movies; Ashlee is a book person.
Ashlee is a cynic; Jeff has a sarcastic wit.
Ashlee loves a good party; Jeff is the life of the party.
Ashlee loves theater; Jeff loves to take her.
Ashlee is an intellectual; Jeff is her equal.
Ashlee is competitive; Jeff isn’t going to lose.
Ashlee loves Jeff; Jeff adores Ashlee.
Comfortable, happy, able to compromise. Ashlee and Jeff are the perfect odd couple; oddly enough choosing a more traditional wedding, and I can now be the keeper of the wedding gown instead of the bridesmaid dresses.April 9, 2008 – 8:36 am
Unlike everyone else on this blog, I met Jeff and Ashlee AFTER their engagement and on the brink of their wedding planning. Jeff arrived at my office first as Ashlee was caught in Friday afternoon traffic. While chatting with Jeff, he revealed to me their story of committed travel on I-70 and Ashlee’s lack of marital interest. Jeff, however, was not dettered because as he explained to me – he knew he had to have her.
Jeff and Ashlee – even though I’ve only just met you and will know you for a short period of your life, you’ve inspired me enough to go home this week and squeeze my husband and children a little tighter. Thank you for blessing me with the story of your journey. Plus, it doesn’t hurt that you’re Cardinals fans!!
Best of luck!
KamiApril 9, 2008 – 8:41 am
I recently started working with Jeff six months ago. My first impression was the day he told the office that he and Ashlee got engaged. You could tell he was excited and that they were ready for the best and most trying commitment ever. They compliment one another and really deserve to win!
Good luck!!April 9, 2008 – 9:06 am
I have known Ashlee for a few years now, and I would definitely say she has made my life richer by considering me as a friend. I LOVE THIS GIRL! She is one of the most caring and beautiful (inside and out) women I have ever met.
Every memory I have of her is a warm one…like the time we spent spring break at Padre and she got sick (I’ll spare her the embarassment of expanding on that subject); and the time I had the priviledge of going home with her and her roomie all the way to Kirksville over the weekend (and she got pulled over for speeding–another embarassing subject). Anyways, I guess what I’m trying to impart is that every minute with Ashlee is fun, funny, exciting and definitely worth it.
I was surprised to find out she was DATING someone, and then I met Jeff and I understood why she was drawn to him. What a great guy for a great girl! I’m so excited for the two of them, and I really think they ought to win this competition (shameless plug). The two of them, with their dynamic personalities and winning attitudes, will go far in life and in love.
My best of warmest wishes. I love you guys!
DApril 9, 2008 – 9:29 am
One-hundred twenty. It’s a number that always seems to stick in my head. What does it represent?
Was it the number of home runs I hit in Little League? Only in my dreams.
Is it the number of times I’ve watched The Godfather? Close, but not quite.
Is it my average score in golf? I’m bad, but not that bad.
How about the number of times I asked Ash out before she finally said yes? It may have seemed like it.
It’s actually the number Ash and I see on the same two mileage signs on Highway 70 each time we leave Columbia or St. Louis every Friday evening as we speed like low-flying planes just to hear those two special words in person for the first time that week:
“Hi Sweetie!”
It’s funny how two simple words can carry so much meaning and help put all of the frustrations of work, of finances, of family and of friends into perspective. Those two words can wash troubles away, bring joy back into life and make one realize how special life is and how lucky they are. Two words for two people who started a journey together almost four years ago.
I know our story isn’t the typical “Love at First Sight” one, with wedding bells ringing as soon as our eyes met. I think her eyes actually met the tips of the spikes of my hair that first day – heels didn’t help the fact that she was already a good two inches taller than me!
Did it matter? Well, I believe couples need to be comfortable with who they are both on the inside and out. I wasn’t her type. I knew that, yet didn’t accept it. This was a challenge. I was willing and ready to put years into winning her over. Every time she gave me a reason not to date her, it gave me another reason to try harder. Was it an act of blind desperation that drove me to continue the pursuit? I don’t think so because the more I was with her, around her or just thinking about her, the better person I became. I dropped 20 pounds and started running with her. Her motivation got me to get my master’s degree. She showed me how to have a more positive attitude about my job. I could go on for days.
But the most important thing that happened during the pursuit: we became best friends. We weren’t dating yet, but we were partners. We could count on each other, confide in each other, vent to each other and, in the end, love each other.
It is that strong bond that we built during those first few years that helped us through some tough times when I moved to St. Louis almost two years ago.
It is that bond we have with each other’s family and friends, who we all love and cherish so very much.
It is that bond that has brought us back together for every weekend but two since I moved.
And it is that bond that led me to ask that important question to her last October: Will you, sweetie, spend the rest of your life with this short, stocky man who loves you more than life itself?
And while that special day is more than a year away, I look forward to this Friday evening and that sign marked “Columbia 120.” I know that in just a short while, I’ll get the chance to say those two special words to the woman I love so much.
“Hi Sweetie!”
I love you, Ash.
JeffApril 9, 2008 – 6:39 pm
I am the guilty party that forced Ashlee to wear the sixth of her infamous bridesmaid’s dresses. Upon asking her to be one of my beloved bridesmaids, Ashlee pleaded with me make one of my wedding colors “claret” so that she wouldn’t have to buy another dress. She didn’t win that battle, but she stood there with me on my special day regardless. I am Ashlee’s younger (and better looking) cousin, Cassie Kay. I became engaged to my husband Matt over three years ago straight out of college. The first person I told about the engagement was, of course, my Mother. My Mom was ecstatic and immediately began notifying the entire family via phone. I suddenly became nervous and told my Mom that she could tell everyone except Ashlee. I have absolutely adored and admired Ashlee since we were little brats…ahem…I mean kids. Ashlee has always been so independent, sure of herself and head-strong regarding the track of her life. I always envisioned Ashlee traveling the world with a backpack on her back and only a passport in her pocket. She seemed unstoppable to me. At the time of my engagement I felt that if Ashlee found out that I ran off straight out of college to marry a man with “baggage” that she would look down upon me for not being more independent and “free.” However, marrying Matt was the most wonderful thing I have ever done. It has brought me feelings of fulfillment and joy through a constant partnership with my equal in this world. As it turns out, Ashlee didn’t judge me for my decisions upon her finding out. In fact, Ashlee has proven to be one of the biggest supporters in my life’s endeavors. I now know that she was surprisingly supportive of my marriage because she was secretly dating Jeff and silently falling in love with him as well. When I heard of the engagement of Ashlee and Jeff I nearly fainted. Ashlee is getting married? I probably wouldn’t have believed it if I had heard it from anyone but Jeff himself. Thank goodness she said “Yes” I told Jeff…because our family holiday parties would have been a bit awkward when both Ashlee and Jeff were invited (because Jeff is the life of our parties!). I could not think of a more deserving couple than Ashlee and Jeff for a prize such as this. In fact, they need the best and most thorough documentation that a wedding can have…because I know many people that would not believe that Ashlee Erwin is getting married if they didn’t see it with their own eyes!
I deeply love Ashlee and Jeff. I love the way Jeff treats my infant daughter like his own. I love the way Ashlee gives me reasons to go on in life after the recent loss of my Father (my best friend). And I love them together as a couple for sharing their lives with me and the rest of our amazing family, now and forever.April 9, 2008 – 8:06 pm
I know, I know, everyone is thinking wow, that Ashlee has a lot of family. But where is Suzanne? First, the fact that Ashlee has a lot of family is the understatement of the year, and secondly, here I am! Yes I am Suzanne, Ashlee’s (much) older and (much) wiser sister and the prospective mother of the hopeful ring bearer and flower girls for the upcoming nuptials! (hint hint). In the fact that I am older and wiser, and having benefit of being happily married myself, I pride myself in recognizing wondrous, true love when I see it. Ashlee has always been the baby sister, but no one ever called her that, unless you wanted pummeled. We have lots of stories of Ashlee; one of particular relevance is the time our young and growing family decided to have a family portrait taken. Ashlee was little, maybe 2 years old, and the over eager photographer thought it would be fun to get in Ashlee’s face with the ‘gitchy gitchy goo’ tactic, well suffice to say that photographer got punched square the nose for his efforts. That picture is proudly displayed at home over the family dining room table, complete with a smiling Ashlee. Now I am sure Ashlee has outgrown the need to punch a photographer – but it shows, that no one tells our Ashlee what to do. That was until…JEFF! As has been stated, to first see Ashlee and Jeff together was a bit surprising, not so much in the aforementioned height difference, but that Ashlee actually brought a guy home to meet her ‘family’. However, being so eager to torment Ashlee and her boyfriend, we were thrilled! Didn’t take long to know we loved Jeff! I mean a super smart man that shared my beloved St Louis Cardinals and an unbelievable movie database brain with my husband and could get Ashlee to refill his glass at dinner…who was this masked man? To know Ashlee and to see her and Jeff together – it just makes the world seem right, like everything will be okay. Her finding Jeff is like finding the last piece of her life’s jigsaw puzzle and seeing the whole world before them. We love you Ashlee & Jeff!
Suzanne, Michael, Mason, Maren & MabryApril 10, 2008 – 8:38 am
I’ve known Jeff for over four years and witnessed his transformation from the pre-Ashlee Jeff to the man we now all know and love. At the beginning of their courtship, I had never seen a man so determined to win a woman’s heart! It was like a love story in a movie that I would actually consider buying, and not just in the $5 Wal-mart bin as Jeff often does! He has grown so much during their time together, and I have honestly never seen him happier.
I’ve also grown closer with Ashlee, especially during this past year. She has been there for me during some especially difficult situations, providing me with some good advice and a Strongbow. She’s a wonderful person who will always be there for her friends and family.
Just to reframe what some other posts have said, I cannot think of a more deserving couple to win this prize! Both individually and together, they make a difference in so many people’s lives. Good luck and I love you guys!
Amy
Future sister-in-lawApril 10, 2008 – 10:08 am
even before we heard from jan + magdalena, we received this from joe, jan’s graduate school friend: Dear Silverbox Photographers: It is with the anticipation of a wonderful, regal wedding experience that I nominate my wonderful friends Jan and Magdalena for the “Win Our Hearts, Win Your Wedding” contest. They are planning to be married…
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I was very happy to hear that Magdalena and Jan are planning to be married. This is a great paar!!! They have to win because they are exceptional. Can you imagine this: They had lived a thousands of kilometers from each other when they met in the one city located a thousands of kilometers from a place where they were born. This is amazing ! This is a real destiny. We wish them a lots of love. Cousin Rafal and his FamilyApril 8, 2008 – 2:44 pm
As Magda’s older – and the only one – sister I am thrilled with joy and cannot wait to start planning, scheduling, ordering and shopping. And, I am soooo looking forward to this grand celebration. It is going to be fabulous! And especially, the upcoming bachelorette weekend that we, girls, are going to spend in Las Vegas. Just two years ago I was getting married and know exactly how much confidence, passion and courage it takes to commit to this one person for the rest of your life. I know this wedding is going to be fantastic! Magda and Jan will make sure to welcome all multinational, multicultural and multilingual guests and show them the best in Warsaw. On the other hand, they definitely will combine the best of all foreign traditions, given we are becoming such a global family, spread between Poland, the USA, Canada, Switzerland, Belgium and Holland. Am I even remembering all nationalities in our family??? Wishing you both much joy and happiness. MalgosiaApril 8, 2008 – 5:39 pm
I have met Jan in Business school. After that one year adventure all our friends took off to places around the world but it turned out that Jan and I always stayed neighbours and actually ended up living just a few streets away.
Despite our busy schedules we like to see each other for a wine or an ice-cream at the lake and share a good moment and what is happening in our lives.
So I have beeing hearing about Magda since the evening of the musical chairs dinner. Since the beginning it was great to see how easy things seemed with Magda and Jan. Something that had not always be the case with his previous encouters.
They gave themselves time to discover each other and took it easy moving forward clearly enjoying every step of their own adventure.
They have been adding richness to each other’s lifes: Jan’s Polish has clearly improved so has certainly Magda’s skiing. But more importantly it is the trust and the respect that that they have for each other that gives their relation its solid foundation.
Their wedding is the next natural step on their common path which will certainly lead them to many exciting places and projects.April 9, 2008 – 3:43 am
Although I have known Jan for 15 years we rarely have the opportunity to see each other. He lives in Switzerland and I live in Australia. But when we do it is like the times we are apart don’t exist. He is one of those people who go out of their way to make you feel at ease and would do anything for you. When ever I bring my family to visit him he always gives us his home and as it is a tiny bed-sit apartment he puts himself out by vacating his place for the duration of our visit. The last couple of times I visited I was relieved that he had somewhere to go, and that was when we met Magdalena. From the very beginning we saw a side to Jan that we’d never seen before and how happy he was. If ever there was a couple made for each other it’s Magdalena and Jan. And how they found each other seems to have come about like some kind of divine intervention. Their cultural backgrounds make them a perfect match but they travelled a long way from their homes to ensure their paths finally crossed. Some may call it luck, others fate. I am sure it was meant to be. We always wondered why Jan never seemed to be interested in settling down and we are sure it was because he was simply waiting for his other half. And Magdalena is the perfect match for Jan. The first thing you notice about her is how stunningly beautiful she is, but it is nothing to compare to what is inside, she is warm, caring and generous. And we can see why Jan fell in love with her. Seeing her with our little daughter, who loved her instantly, is an absolute joy. They truly are a wonderful and deserving couple and my family are so happy for them.April 9, 2008 – 6:06 am
What a lovely couple! What else one needs to say.. Well.. a lot actually Sharing such a rich history and finding eachother in a different part of the world, they have must been meant for eachother.
I know Magda for about 5 years, and she is the most contented person I’ve ever met, with always this nice smile on her face. She would hardly let anything annoy her. And I have met Jan a few times and he is also such a positive person, so they don’t only make each other feel happy, but those who spend time with them. Certainly me…
I wish all the best and happines to them!April 9, 2008 – 7:42 am
I met Magda when she moved to Warsaw. We worked for the same company for some time. Magda is such a warm person that it took as only few days and one team building trip (to Konstancin ) to become friends. She is not only warm but also carrying, smart and funny. All moments spent together were nothing but fun and joy. Even though first days in Geneva were little tough for her, I knew it was only a matter of time for Magda to find her place there.
During one of my trips to see Magda I met Jan and somehow I knew that this will last.. Not only because they look great together but also because of this love aura around them.
Now, being far away from each other (Warsaw-Geneva), and talking to each other rarely, Magda is still the warmest person I have ever met. What they have together-Jan and Magda-is beautiful and everlasting. BasiaApril 9, 2008 – 8:38 am
Magda and me have been working together for 1.5 years now and I must say that she is one of the best colleagues (and friend) I have ever had, even when times are a bit tough 
Whenever she talks abaout Jan you can see her eyes start to sparkle. She was so happy when he proposed to her on New Years eve.
Magda, I am wishing you and Jan a lifetime full of happy years, long on laughter, short on tears… enduring love…sweet dreams come true……all good wishes, all for you! Congratulations on your upcoming marriageApril 9, 2008 – 12:28 pm
When I first time heard their story (all these oceans and mountains apart) I realized, it has to end like fairytale: and they lived happily ever after.
Magda is the princess of warm, Jan is the prince of courtesy, their wedding will be in such a nice church and the most beautiful Royal Gardens.
The first time I have met Magda in Vilnius, her heartiness was so charming, she is so open, it was so easy to enter her world and feel safe and stay there for the coming years of our friendship. I am very happy she is in my heart.
I will never forget the evening in their home in Geneva. After 5 min. I thought, I knew Jan for the ages, he is so easy going and “sweet sugar candy man”.
I remember the moment when during phone discussion with Magda, she shared with me about engagement ring, I was jumping like a kid and singing out cheerfully in the streets of Vilnius YES, YES, YES!
God bless You Magda and Jan! You won my heart, win Your wedding!
With Love, DovileApril 10, 2008 – 7:53 am
Janni – the craziest of my friends and the kindest heart of all! He puts his gigantic brain to service when he remembers everyones birthday to make a show with a cake, flowers or anything else that matters. He wins over your heart as probably any adorable 37 year old baby wandering around just would!
Magda will be a good wife and loving mother of his children. She will stand by his side through good and bad and they will live a long life, to share the kind spirit they carry with them and make this world a warmer place…April 10, 2008 – 8:22 am
You see Jan learned Polish as a child at home in Canada with his mom and dad. He was capable of speaking but somehow not on the same level as in other languages, and with a particular kidish vocabulary and accent. Magdalena has secretly told me that his Polish at the beginning was really the trick. His boyish Polish mom’s taught mistakes turned out to be another reason to add fire to the Jan and Magdalena love affair. These days you would hear Jan, now with an impressive Polish accent properly speaking to the women he loves. If taking the very difficult time and effort to make sure you can speak your future wife’s language is not a true example of love, then what is ? We hope that a chance to have Silverbox Photgraphers at the wedding to help capture this special moment. Wishing my good friends Magdalena all the best things in life ! Your friend, JonApril 10, 2008 – 3:45 pm
Well I am not surprised that the story of these two fabulous people has made the finals, seing how romantic and the fairy tale like course that it has taken. And it’s only he beginning, with all the best yet too come… :0)
I met Magda 3 years ago now, after having moved to Geneva and not knowing a soul. From the very beginning she was soo smiley, friendly, nice and I am soo glad and honoured to say that we have become excellent – true friends.
I was a little sceptical at first when I heard how our dear Madga had met Jan and heard about his little thought out plans to get to spend some time alone with her … But trully, once I met Jan, and saw them together, I could instantly tell that their love was real and it was most definitely something that was going to last.
Jan, like Magda is great with people and makes everyone feel welcome and comfortable with his great sense of humour and friendly character. Although they may seem very alike in characters they soo complete each other and form a union which let’s face it we all dream of having.
So my dear Magda and Jan, I wish you both the very best for what’s to come and I also wish you a fantastic wedding day …
Big hugs to both of you, NatApril 11, 2008 – 5:37 am
Dear Magda, Dear Jan,
Congratulations ! After having red your whole story, I can only say one thing: yes you are really made for each other! It’s so obvious ! I don’t know Jan very well, but it’s true, when Magda talks about him, her eyes are twinkling (you can see it on the picture as well)!! Magda, Jan, I wish you a wonderful wedding at the St-Joseph’s Care Church, a lot of joy, health, happiness, and many many many little Mazanys&Krasnodebskis !!!!!!!!!!! Love is in the air April 11, 2008 – 7:39 am
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here we go silver lining readers, the next “win your wedding” finalist couple: meghan + pat | honduras meghan + pat met each other at age 11, attending both middle school and high school together, but pursuing different interests thru college. so different in fact that Meghan submitted this entry from honduras, where she is…
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This is Meghan’s 16-year-old (and youngest) sister and I just found out that Meghan and Pat were finalists- I am super excited! I am going to be Meghan’s maid of honor and her and I are incredibly close. I can’t really remember a time when Pat and Meghan weren’t dating, since I was so young when they started. When Pat would come over to the house when I was in elementary school, my parents would tell me to go to the basement to spy on them and tell them what I saw. Now that I’m in high school, all of my teachers ask me about Meghan and Pat and none of them are surprised that they are engaged. My friends and I often joke about the boys at our school and say, “why are there no other Pat Godfreys?” Pat is like a brother to my other sisters and I, always coming on family vacations and such. A few summers ago we were all at the beach and that was the first time there was any talk of a wedding. He, a football star, was the leading player on my family Bocce Ball team and I said, “Meghan, he is officially good at everything. Just marry him already!” As soon as he proposed, Meghan called my mom and I from Honduras in hysterics. My initial reaction was, “duh! What took him so long?” Meghan and Pat are perfect for each other and deserve the perfect wedding. This would help so much!April 6, 2008 – 5:21 pm
Hi,
Meghan is the oldest of my four daughters. One of my greatest wishes is that my other three daughters find the happiness that Meghan has found with Pat. Meghan and Pat have been best friends ever since they were both ditched at their 8th grade graduation dance. Their “dates” ditched them for each other, and that night I drove a van with both the ditchees and the ditchers to an after party (awkward). That awkward night has lead to what I know, in my heart of hearts, will be life-long happiness.
I love the silver lining website and the way you capture the essence of the moment, and the personalities of the characters. I hope Meghan and Pat are chosen so they can have your wonderful creations as their memories. Thank you for even considering them. –Jan Davies (Meghan’s mom)April 6, 2008 – 6:01 pm
I remember Meghan as a gorgeous blue eyed baby on a vist to Chile to visit her and her parents. We even traveled to Honduras (so can vouch for her presence there)to see where she lived and worked with people to prevent or care for those with HIV/AIDS. It was clear that her tender heart was especially connected to the children. Although we live half way across the country, we have very fond memories of Pat and Meghan as a couple over many years and many special events. The photos on your website are beautiful! It would be wonderful if Meghan and Pat’s wedding could be captured by photos as yours. It’s great that you can consider them in your contest! Aunt MarciaApril 6, 2008 – 7:19 pm
I was a Peace Corps Volunteer with Meghan in Honduras. She and I got sick early in our training period on the same day. I was lucky and got over it. Meghan battled tropical bugs her Entire Service. Did she quit, putting her physical comfort first? No. Meghan stayed, making in a month what most government workers earn in a day. Meghan was a founder of a groundbreaking HIV prevention curriculum that will be shared with other Peace Corps volunteers, even in other countries. She trained trainers from other countries. We all knew about her love for Pat. I am so thrilled to hear of his surprise proposal. For all Meghan has given of herself, I hope the world can give as much back.April 6, 2008 – 11:32 pm
I HAVE BUTTERFLIES just reading your fantastic story! Y’all are meant for each other and I couldn’t be more excited for the both of you!!!! Being apart for so long must have been beyond difficult – this ending really is a silver lining to the story. -Jessie SApril 7, 2008 – 5:53 am
That story is adorable, and reminds me of my parents (my mom laughed my dad off several times…). It’s amazing that you managed to be so far apart for so long, and that you have been together for so long. I wish you the best of luck in everything!
-cApril 7, 2008 – 6:29 am
You two have stuck it out through a lot. I congratulate you! You’re such a darn cute couple with such a long history together, I think the best contest you could win would be to get married and stay together and continue being happy the rest of your lives.
BrentApril 7, 2008 – 7:39 am
Meghan and Pat are, simply put..two of the nicest people I know. I liked Pat the minute I met him, at Meghan’s Graduation Party. I knew right then they would marry someday. Both of them are happy,upbeat people. Always nice to be with. Always ready to help out those who need it. I have known Meghan all her life, as I am her Grandmother!! She was the most beautiful and captivating child ever. I loved just watching her and listening to her. I am very happy she found a person like Pat to marry and spend her life with. They are absolutetly made for each other, corny as that sounds. Pat is a great guy and we already all love him. I am sure he and Meghan will have a good live together.April 7, 2008 – 9:16 am
I was a Peace Corps Volunteer with Meghan, we came in together in the same class. A person that always has a smile on her face. I have only had the pleasure to meet Pat a couple of times, but you can tell it is meant to be. That smile that she always has on her face becomes magical when he is around.April 7, 2008 – 9:32 am
Meghan and Pat are a great couple! Somehow as Meghan’s cousin I managed to go 14 years without meeting Pat until recently, but I think he is a great guy and they are so lucky to have kept their love alive during such long periods of separation. Meghan’s work in the Peace Corps is amazing, and she is so deserving of the wedding of her dreams after all the selfless work she has done. They are perfect for each other, and will no doubt lead a life of happiness and love together.April 7, 2008 – 9:48 am
Congratulations! I have seen many relationships fall apart because of the stresses of Peace Corps, and can be a negative person when it comes to love. However, watching Meghan talk about Pat and her life in the U.S., I could tell there was something special between them, and I thought hey, maybe it is real. I believe y´all will have a wonderful marriage because y´all are great friends who can laugh together. Que Dios les bendigaApril 7, 2008 – 12:35 pm
“Good luck Meghan, you’ll do great! See you in 2008! Will Pat wait??” That was a poem we made up the day of Meghan’s going away party in January 2006. She left for Honduras a week later. Well, here it is 2008 and Pat did wait and she did do great!
Hope to see you at the wedding, SilverBox Photographers!
Judy (Meghan’s aunt)April 7, 2008 – 12:41 pm
Meghan and Pat are one of those rare couples who really were meant to be together forever. They have known each other since they were kids and have only had eyes for each other. I think it was much harder on everyone who loves them to have to wait for Meghan to get through these past two years in the Peace Corps for the engagement!! They are beautiful together in every way and they bring out the best in each other and everyone around them.
I love your contest and am so excited that Meghan and Pat are finalists. I sincerely hope they win! RitaApril 7, 2008 – 3:02 pm
I met Meghan on the elevator in Washington DC where together we departed to live in Honduars as Peace Corps volunteers for two years. During training is when I first started to hear about her boyfiend Pat. She described him as a sports-loving football jock that was easy going and honest. Unlike the majority of long distance relationships down here, Meghan and Pat not only stayed faithful to eachother but they were able to maintain the close friendship that their relationship was based on. Pat supported Meghan in her work and even stuck by her when she was sent to Panama for some serious ongoing medical issues. It was obvious he wanted her to come home but he never told her to leave Honduars. Instead Pat came down to visit Meghan. I tried to give them alone couple time when he came down but they are the kind of couple you just want to be around. I miss Meghan lots down here in Honduars but I am happy that finally the two of them are together in the same country AND getting married. Congrats and see you both your big day!April 7, 2008 – 3:06 pm
I already wrote a very nice story but I don´t see it posted. It might be because I am still in Honduras where everything moves a little bit slower. But if my other one doesn´t show up, I want to say Congrats to Meg and Pat. You two are the kind of couple that everyone wants to be around. Miss you Meghan but I am glad you are finally back in the same country with Pat.April 7, 2008 – 3:27 pm
I’m a family friend, and have known both Meghan and Pat for just about as long as I can remember. When i was growing up, my family and Meghan’s family would go to the beach together every summer. When I was about 8, Pat started joining us on our vacations. That year on the way home, I told my mom that if Meghan didn’t marry Pat, that maybe he would wait for me to grow up and marry me! Both Pat and Meghan were always so patient with all of us little kids, and now, 9 years later, things haven’t changed a bit. They’re both really great people, and I think they are the perfect couple for your contest!!
Hadleigh MorrisApril 7, 2008 – 3:33 pm
Meghan is a wonderful woman. I’ve known her since I was in the sixth grade, since she is the older sister of one of my good friends. She and Pat seem so happy together, and hearing about this proposal simply confirms it. What a great story. I wish them the best of luck!April 7, 2008 – 4:27 pm
Meghan’s father here. Pat and I share two things in common: the same name and a ton of love for Meghan! I am so proud of Meghan and so happy to have Pat as a member of the family. Kudos to the other finalists, but no other couple in America is more deserving of this award!April 7, 2008 – 4:43 pm
What more can be said about this fantastic couple–they are Picture Perfect
Cheers! GinaApril 7, 2008 – 6:23 pm
As Pat’s little sister I am very excited to finally have a sister in Meghan. They are a wonderful couple and I only hope I can find someone who loves me as much as they love each other.April 7, 2008 – 7:37 pm
Well, I have to say, after knowing Pat for only a few months, he’s a great fellow co-worker. I’ve heard about Meghan but have not had the opportunity to meet her just yet since she was away in the Peace Corps. I too am a returned Peace Corps Volunteer and look forward to meeting her in the near future to share stories about Central America. Pat and Meghan, I wish you both all the best.
Pura Vida,
Amy B.April 7, 2008 – 8:09 pm
Where are the “then” and “now” pictures? Pat and Meghan have been together since the 9th grade! As a former classmate, I can remember the days. They are truly the perfect couple. After hearing their story, I hope you are looking forward to this wedding as much as me!
AaronApril 7, 2008 – 8:17 pm
I had not heard the story of the actual proposal until now… it is just perfect! Funny and real – and that is Pat and Meghan. We are so happy for them.
Meghan’s aunt, Rebekkah DaviesApril 7, 2008 – 8:24 pm
I’m Meghan’s uncle so it’s not easy to be objective but I am also a teacher by trade and have had the opportunity to work with lots of young people over the years. While many, if not most, young people of her generation were out trying to accumulate as much money, status and “stuff” as they could, Meghan was in Honduras enduring dengue fever and working with people whose own compatriots had marginalized and ignored. I’m proud to have someone like her as a niece and I’m sure Pat must be a good guy if he chose a young woman like her to marry. And I won’t even get into what a cute kid she was….that would just be cheating.April 7, 2008 – 8:32 pm
This is another of Meghan’s little sisters! I’ve always been a bit envious of Meghan and Pat’s relationship. I’ve been in a long distance relationship for a year and a half, and haven’t handled it nearly as well as Meghan and Pat have. I’ve always thought that keeping a long distance relationship together was impossible, but they really do give me hope! I’ve known Pat forever, and he is like a big brother to me, and I’m so excited to make it official! I’m in college right now, and so far away from the wedding talks and plans, but it’s still on my mind a lot. I think my friends are getting annoyed with how much I talk about it.
Meghan has been in Honduras for the last two years trying to make a difference in this world, and she did a magnificent job. After all her hard work, she truly deserves this happiness. Pat and Meghan are perfect for each other, and are perfect candidates for this contest. They’ve been through a lot to finally be together, and I have a lot of respect for them. I love you, Meghan and Pat
LiannaApril 7, 2008 – 11:54 pm
I’m Meghan’s sister. There are four of us, I am the second. It has been amazing to grow up watching my sister fall in love and watching her relationship with Pat develop over many years. Since Meghan is the oldest, Pat was the first boy that any of us “brought home.” I imagine that was not easy for both of them. The three of us younger sisters saw it as our duty to make those first few years as difficult as possible. As Abby mentioned, there was lots of spying (sometimes instigated by our parents, sometimes on our own accord), songs and rhymes were written mocking my sister and her relationship, and Abby just loved to tell my parents that she followed Meghan to school in her backpack and saw them kissing (what do you expect from a five year old?) Compared to my loud, chaotic, and sometimes intimidating family, Pat was a man a few words, especially in high school. I’m pretty sure he rarely responded to anything we did or say with much more than an “aight” during the first year or two of their relationship.
Over time Pat became part of our family. For years I have been calling him either my Brother in Law or Meghan’s Pat, because simply calling him her “boyfriend” felt silly. He is someone I can depend on as a brother. He is someone who brought me and my younger sisters gifts when he went to Hawaii many years , something most high school boyfriends do not do, and someone who will wake up at four in the morning to drive me to the airport so I can meet Meghan and my family in Honduras for Christmas. I will not write the things that Meghan has done for me (not to mention the world), because this is already too long and I would have to write a book. However, their relationship has taught me a great deal about love, hard work, not settling, and how you should expect to be treated by someone who loves you (as Meghan says, you should be treated like a princess).April 8, 2008 – 3:05 am
My name is Dana and I work with Pat, and I have known him for over a year now. I have never met his lovely fiance, however I have heard him talk about her a lot, what a great person she is, and every time she is mentioned he sounds genuinely happy and excited. Meghan sounds like a giving and fabulous girl, and I know that Pat is wonderful, so I cannot imagine a better couple to win!April 8, 2008 – 6:34 am
Oh, this story put such a big smile on my face!
What a great story to pass on to your children. April 8, 2008 – 7:25 am
I was reunited with Pat at our current company Customink, and went to highschool with both Pat and Meghan, and I cannot believe that after all these years Meghan and Pat have continued to be together. I was never super close with both of them in highschool, but as Pat and I have worked together these past two years, I have learned more and more about how amazing and strong their love is for eachother. My heart melted and I had tears in my eyes, when he told me about his proposal. I wish them the best of everything, because I do not know any other couple who deserves eachother, like I know they do.April 8, 2008 – 8:01 am
pat and i have worked together for almost 4 years now. pat is one of the most laid back guys you’ll ever meet and has one of the biggest smiles. it’s amazing, though, just how much bigger of a smile he gets when meghan is around. they have such a great history and are going to have an amazing life together. we used to always love to have pat come hang out because he’s such a fun guy on his own. and then meghan started coming to hang out with us when she could (before she left to save the world!) and we realized that meghan was even more fun. they are a great couple to be around and you can’t help but smile when you see how happy they are with each other.
~kfloApril 8, 2008 – 8:10 am
This seems like such a cute couple! Best of luck!April 8, 2008 – 10:43 am
I’m Meghan’s cousin, and somehow can count the time’s I’ve met Pat on one hand. But I can tell from the way she talks about him, and stories I have heard, that they were meant to be together. Congratulations you guys! I know you will have an amazing life together!
-TomApril 8, 2008 – 10:49 am
Congratulations and what a cute couple!April 8, 2008 – 12:00 pm
Pat used to be my supervisor and since I sat right in front of him, I had the pleasure of hearing all about Meghan and Honduras while she was away in the Peace Corps. The best story Pat has ever told would be the one of when he got the chance to propose while visiting her for New Years. Although circumstances prevented Meghan from keeping the ring there Pat brought it in to show off to all the girls in the office. And let me tell you, was it a nice ring! Congrats Pat and Meghan, and welcome to the Married Club!April 8, 2008 – 12:22 pm
I just wanted to weigh in and thank everyone for all of the comments. Meghan has been checking obsessively as they have come in and has been more than once moved to tears by what is being said. We obviously would love to win the photography, but win or lose this process, and seeing all the comments from family and friends, has already been very gratifying for us. Meghan is already talking about finding a creative way to save all of these comments as a keepsake.
Over the past ten plus years Meghan and I have already had quite a journey. She has a habit of, as I often put it, going off to save the world. Whether it was the last two years in Honduras, going to separate colleges, or a month working at a mission Mexico one summer in high school (which at the time seemed like two years) we haven’t always been together physically, but I have always felt she is with me. While it has been hard, at times, to be apart I’m always proud of the work she does; plus I’ve had some pretty cool vacations going to visit her. And don’t worry she now has a job that will allow her to focus on just saving the DC metro area for a while.
Thanks again to everyone who has commented and thank you Amy and Kim for hosting such a cool contest.
- PatApril 8, 2008 – 2:16 pm
I love these two crazy kids so much that I just HAD to write a song about the,. (Too bad you can´t upload songs to this thing! You´ll just have to imagine me singing)
Meghan Davies is one of the funniest I know,
Wherever she goes, you´ll find a show,
And Pat he´s a swell I.T. kind of a guy,
His proposal was so cute and funny it made me cry,
And although she was in Honduras 2 long years,
True love endures, despite our fears,
The ceremony will be lovely in DC,
Peace Corps Honduras reunited with glee!
-Sarah GApril 8, 2008 – 4:11 pm
I am a fellow Peace Corps Volunteer also working in Meghan´s HIV/AIDS education project. She had such a wonderful attitude throughout our two years together… very can-do, very positive. We went through some not-so-fun stomach stuff together and she kept me going with her great sense of humor. Meghan, I wish you and Pat the best!April 8, 2008 – 4:33 pm
So there I was, just a couple of months ago in mid-January…my phone rings and it’s Meghan from Honduras! I’m always thrilled when I get a chance to catch up with her. Meghan starts off by asking questions and telling me to catch her up on my life. For twenty minutes or so, she lets me go on and on, even asking me questions to keep me going. Finally, she announces that Pat is still in Honduras with her and that they had just gotten engaged. At this point, I wasn’t sure whether I wanted to yell at her for not blurting out the news right away or immediately start gushing about how excited I was for them. Actually, it wasn’t that hard of a decision…I was incredibly thrilled to hear that they had made this commitment to each other and couldn’t help gushing. I know that they will be so happy and that this marriage will benefit all of man-kind as these two, amazing individuals in their own right, are even more powerful with each other by their side! This anecdote is so typical of them. It shows how caring and selfless they are, always putting their friends before themselves.
Here is the background: I met Meghan about 7 years ago in college, where we lived together for a year and a half. Meghan is one of the kindest, most caring, enthusiastic, and fun people I know. She is always ready and willing to drop everything to help a friend, or a stranger for that matter. I met Pat over some weekend visits in college. We all instantly loved Pat and he fit right in with our friends. We even took road trips in college to get Pat and bring him to visit for the weekend. Meghan and Pat are such wonderful people individually, and together are simply amazing. I can’t wait for the big day and would love to see it documented by SilverBox Photography!
SaraApril 8, 2008 – 6:01 pm
ADORABLE. I love that story. I love that couple. – EmmaApril 9, 2008 – 4:58 am
So there I was, just a couple of months ago in mid-January…my phone rings and it’s Meghan from Honduras! I’m always thrilled when I get a chance to catch up with her. Meghan starts off by asking questions and telling me to catch her up on my life. For twenty minutes or so, she lets me go on and on, even asking me questions to keep me going. Finally, she announces that Pat is still in Honduras with her and that they had just gotten engaged. At this point, I wasn’t sure whether I wanted to yell at her for not blurting out the news right away or immediately start gushing about how excited I was for them. Actually, it wasn’t that hard of a decision…I was incredibly thrilled to hear that they had made this commitment to each other and couldn’t help gushing. I know that they will be so happy and that this marriage will benefit all of man-kind as these two, amazing individuals in their own right, are even more powerful with each other by their side! This anecdote is so typical of them. It shows how caring and selfless they are, always putting their friends before themselves.
Here is the background: I met Meghan about 7 years ago in college, where we lived together for a year and a half. Meghan is one of the kindest, most caring, enthusiastic, and fun people I know. She is always ready and willing to drop everything to help a friend, or a stranger for that matter. I met Pat over some weekend visits in college. We all instantly loved Pat and he fit right in with our friends. We even took road trips in college to get Pat and bring him to visit for the weekend. Meghan and Pat are such wonderful people individually, and together are simply amazing. I can’t wait for the big day and would love to see it documented by SilverBox Photography!
SaraApril 9, 2008 – 5:31 am
This is Meghan’s “anti-marriage” bachelor uncle weighing in (rut-row!). I gotta tell you though, being around these two makes even the most cynical person rethink such a stance. I see that sappiness rules here, but if you actually knew Pat and Meghan, you would be on here sapping away too. The world could use a lot more Pats and Meghans. What better way to accomplish that then this!
UJPApril 9, 2008 – 7:02 am
I have worked with Pat for over four years and am always amazed by his easy going and positive approach to everything that he does. Since I tend to not be the most laid back person, I have always taken comfort in talking to Pat about everything because he calms me down and makes me feel better. Outside of work we play softball and flag football together and when I get mad at myself or nervous about playing I always look to Pat for guidance. Since I have been talking to Pat about my wedding endlessly for the past few months I was so excited to hear that he was buying the ring and I couldn’t wait until he came back to tell me the story. I know how much Pat loves Meghan and how hard the past few years have been for them living apart but I they both made such efforts to stay connected and in touch and I think that it is a testament to how strong their relationship really is and I am so excited that they will get to spend the rest of their lives together.April 9, 2008 – 9:28 am
So I can’t believe I am Comment #44(ish) and still, no one has mentioned anything about Meghan’s laugh. This is shocking to me. Seeing what everyone else wrote, I definitely agree: Meghan and Pat are amazing, selfless, considerate people and phenomenal friends. I would even put them in the “superhero” category. But, what I’d like to focus on is her laugh. It’s a rich laugh. You definitely know it when you hear it… one of those infectious and enjoyable outward manifestations of joy. And when you are around Meghan, you will hear it a lot… because in addition to all of those other wonderful qualities she demonstrates, Meghan is such a fun person and has a great sense of humor. She has the ability to laugh at herself, and to help others do the same.
Silver Lining folks: if you have the opportunity to attend Meghan and Pat’s wedding, you will see first hand that these two people are amazing and compassionate individuals, but I can also guarantee that you will have one one heck of a time. It will definitely be a phenomenal event, and with your help, they will be able to cherish and re-live the experience for the rest of their lives.April 9, 2008 – 10:56 am
Meghan was our first grandchild and will always have a special place in our hearts. She had little blond ringlets and bright blue, inquisitive eyes. She was precocious and talkative. Not much has changed over the years. We live in Wisconsin, and when Meghan was younger, she and her family visited every summer for nearly a month. We learned all about Meghan’s likes and dislikes. She used to love lemon meringue pie, so much so that she then went on to win a pie-eating contest in high school. Pie flavor? Yes, lemon meringue. She didn’t mince words. When I told Meghan I was a Lumberjack, she shot back, “Grandpa, you’re such a liar.” My brother, Meghan’s great uncle, and his family helped found LAMP (Latin American Mission Program). Meghan volunteered at the same mission in Mexico. When Meghan was in college she volunteered with cancer patients, worked in a long-term health facility, and her career of giving had begun.
We are so happy Meghan and Pat have found each other. We are hoping we will be healthy enough to make it to the wedding. The reception is going to be in a lovely venue in Georgetown overlooking the Potomac. It will be classy, emotional, personal, fun… We know if we can’t make it, Meghan and Pat will make a trek to Wisconsin to share all their memories. Hopefully the memories will be in the form of Silver Box Photos. Amy and Kim, we’d be very jealous if you made it to the wedding and we didn’t. However, we know you’d do a great job capturing the moment. It would be like we were there in person. I’m not lying when I say there are no two people more deserving of this prize.April 9, 2008 – 2:06 pm
As Pat’s brother, I probably shouldn’t have waited so long to look at this site and to post. I’m excited to have Meghan as my official sister-in-law, although knowing how great they are together, it’s been a forgone conclusion for quite some time. I look forward to watching them finally tie the knot after all these years.
WayneApril 9, 2008 – 6:01 pm
I cannot begin to think of a couple more deserving of this prize! Their relationship is one-of-a-kind and truely inspiring! I am so excited to watch them say their “I dos” and become husband and wife! ~StephApril 9, 2008 – 6:16 pm
It seems that I have known Meghan forever and Pat for about the same amount of time. They are a very special couple. Meghan is the sort of person you don’t think could really exist. She’s intelligent, funny, caring, beautiful and gives so much more to those around her than she expects in return. It is no surprise that Pat would trek to the wilds of Honduras to propose. What sane guy wouldn’t go this far. What is even more amazing about this couple is that they are a perfect match for each other. Pat is one of the nicest guys you could ever meet. They have done so much for others it would be great if they won the Silver Box award.
I’ll certainly be making the trip from Australia for the wedding next year and for any other major future event in their many years together.
WarwickApril 9, 2008 – 6:32 pm
This is Lauren, I am so excited for the both of you! I’m so happy to have gotten to know Pat (you’re really showing your big brother up!) and Meghan (you picked the better brother!) over the past couple of years! Can’t wait for many more years of fun to come!April 9, 2008 – 6:52 pm
Kevin said,
What can I say about these two? Pat was one of my first friends ever. We spent our childhood playing every sport known to man and riding bikes for miles. Then Meghan moved to town and I knew all of that was over. Haha, I joke but it was easy to see at a very young age that these two would always have one another. They dated all through high school and kept it going through time and space. I always said that the only couple that could withstand a long distance relationship is Meghan and Pat. And they have. Cheers to you guys. I can only pray that your futures together reflect your amazing past. Best wishes to the both of you as you continue growing and loving each other.
-KeyesApril 9, 2008 – 8:08 pm
I’m a family friend and have been gladly hearing about Meghan’s and Pat’s wonderful story for years. It’s fabulous to see them reach this happy point and to know the beautiful future they have together.April 10, 2008 – 10:21 am
Congratulations to you both for sticking it thru, and especially to Meghan who, which I know as a fellow Peace Corps Volunteer, has got to be one of the most resiliant babes I know for dealing with more than her fair share of rare jungle illnesses. You are a gorgeous couple and after making it this far I know you’ll stay happy the rest of your lives.April 10, 2008 – 10:36 am
Meghan and Pat are absolutely perfect for each other, and it’s amazing how they’ve taken the meaning of “long-distance” to a whole new level for basically their entire relationship. The fact that they’ve stayed so close and supportive of each other while in different countries and time zones just illustrates how much they’re meant to be together. And their wedding is sure to be an amazing event for all involved.
-LaurenApril 10, 2008 – 1:34 pm
To the lovely bride and groom to be…a comment left by Lianna’s wonderful boyfriend, Roberto
I hear that when Pat proposed, Megan laughed. How cute is that? Even though I have only hung out with them sparingly, Pat and Megan have always been the wonder couple staying together whether they would admit it or not.
Conversations in the Davies’ household went on and on about Megan’s work in Honduras and when Pat would finally pop the question. Once the news was in, there were many sighs of relief and resounding calls of “Finally!”
Everyone knew that Megan and Pat would be together forever and now they are making it official. Best of luck to the happy couple now and for many years to come.
Knibb High football rules!
-Bobby (that annoying blonde kid who is dating Lianna)April 11, 2008 – 1:57 pm
Meghan is one of the sweetest folks you’ll ever meet and I’m glad she found a guy like Pat. I’m so happy for Meghan and Pat and wish them the best for years to come.
-DangrApril 11, 2008 – 2:08 pm
I have known Meghan for the last 16 years and what an awesome young lady and role model. In a day when so many people want the quick and easy way Meghan laid out a plan and most importantly followed through, a lesson who can all learn from. I am sure with the desire and determination she has already shown Meghan will be successful in life as well as in her marriage. The resolve both have shown in staying together across 2 countries is something we all can learn from. I wish Meghan and Pat the best as they take on life’s new challenges and am confident with all they have already gone through they both will prosper. An awesome story that should win and deserves to be told!! WayneApril 11, 2008 – 5:55 pm
I am such a delinquent friend for not writing something sooner, but I hope it’s not too late! Meghan and Pat are incredible people. They won my heart over almost 8 years ago when I met Meghan in college and then eventually her “friend” Pat. They are both such caring and selfless people who are always willing to help their friends, family, and complete strangers. By awarding this contest to Meghan and Pat, you will get to see first hand how amazing they are. I can’t think of a more deserving couple and I hope you all at Silver Lining get the privilege of meeting them and capturing their special day.April 11, 2008 – 6:03 pm
I went on one of the trips to Honduras with Meghan and Pat and I can’t think of a more deserving couple. Pat was so excited to see Meghan the whole trip there. They are a fun couple to be around and we always have a blast with them. Honduras was a great place when we all visited Meghan and very fitting that Pat proposed there. Their engagement story is just a small look into how funny there are. I wish the best for them and know they will be a great married couple. -bethApril 11, 2008 – 8:03 pm
As Meghan’s aunt I have known Pat for years and Megs forever. When she told me they were “just friends” I completely bought it. Of course when my sister, her mother, told me over 25 years ago that she and HER Pat were just friends, I completely bought that also. I am actually happy that Meghan and Pat have that “just friends” basis to build on, as I think it is a terrific way to start a life-long romance. My husband and I started 15 years ago as, you guessed it, “just friends.” Meghan and Pat deserve to win this contest just based on the wonderful things people have said on this blog. May they have love, may they have happiness, and may they always be friends. CindyApril 12, 2008 – 8:00 am
When Pat says he used up all of his vacation days, he’s not lying!! Having worked with him for over 3 years now, I’ve seen his dedication to Meghan… these past two especially — while she was away in Honduras. He worked many Saturdays to save up enough time to go visit her. And on several occasions, he worked a few 6-day workweeks in a row (over the holidays no less!) to make the big trip. I’m so glad they are both in the area together again and wish them the best! Congrats!April 13, 2008 – 9:09 am
9 comments
Karen (Mikols) Bonar - oooooh, all photos are beautiful. But last one is KILLER!!!!!!!June 4, 2009 – 9:57 pm
becca - what a gorgeous couple! and the new blog looks great!June 5, 2009 – 4:08 am
Jennie - ACK!!!! I LOVE THEM! What vibrant, wonderful images, as usual. But I guess these are NOT the usual, given that you’re shooting in Poland?!
The last blogspot post? I AM sad! Phew…I realized that you WILL continue to have a blog. I rely on you guys for my heartwarming smiles and wonderful flights of fancy in the mornings, so having a new blog will be fabulous. Perhaps I should leave this comment on the new blog, no?
Have a wonderful European adventure.
And don’t worry…I’ll be back to the new site. Smooches and hugs and everything nice to both of you.June 5, 2009 – 7:29 am
Jennie - And…IS THAT A CASTLE? Gasp…love it.
I am particularly fond of the pictures with family–the one of the grandfather and grandmother. Just breathtaking. I also am partial to the picture in the boat–so romantic.
Now my office job seems VERY humdrum!!!!!!!June 5, 2009 – 7:32 am
Beth Pike - Kim and Amy – These pictures are just beautiful! Gorgeous! So excited to see a glimpse of Poland and your journey! Kim, the kids and I have enjoyed a sunny day in Columbia. We picked strawberries in the morning, east of town, and took a walk/jog around Stephens Lake (to officially kick-off our Kids on Track marathon ourselves) and now hanging-out on the couch drinking lemonade and watching a movie after a busy morning. David will enjoy the berries when the kids get home, and while we promise there won’t be any left in a week, there will be more to pick when you get home! Sophie picked the most of the four – a little 2.07 lbs of strawberries to be exact! Take care and keep up the good work – and enjoy the sites!
Hugs to you both!
Love,
BethJune 5, 2009 – 2:24 pm
Mary Day - gosh ladies, this site is awesome! and i feel so honored to be a part of the banner
your poland pics are stunning, and i can’t wait for 2 months from now!!June 7, 2009 – 7:52 pm
Abbie - I love the new site and the new brand! Gorgeous!June 8, 2009 – 12:32 pm
Magda & Jan - What can we say…, a picture is worth a thousand words, but yours are worth a MILLION!!!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpmILPAcRQo
Hope you are enjoying Prague! Kisses and hugs from Capri!June 9, 2009 – 6:43 am
anastasia pottinger - Holy Smokes!!!!!!!! Kim and I are sitting here editing at Sven’s Kafe and she strongly suggested I take a look at the new blog. Holy Moley and wowie zowie, ladies! The images from Poland have tears in my eyes. Good stuff all of you! I can’t come up with enough good adjectives to show how excited I am for you guys! Love you both!!!!June 22, 2009 – 1:32 pm